• Evkob@lemmy.ca
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    10 months ago

    I’ve never understood the term “cocksucker” as an insult. Ignoring the obvious homophobic undertones (which really is the main reason we should maybe not use it) I can’t help but feel like cocksuckers are pillars of the community who should be celebrated for the hard work they do.

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      10 months ago

      When used in a derogatory way it’s more about someone who sucks cock for reasons of personal gain, like to get into a position of power just to abuse that power, rather that someone who sucks cock for the love of cock.

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        10 months ago

        I’m not sure that is communicated, as this is my first time realizing this. I am dumb though, so take that into account.

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          10 months ago

          I don’t think anyone thinks about it, the same way that native english speakers will type ‘alot.’ Language is a bitch ;)

    • Murdoc@sh.itjust.works
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      10 months ago

      My peeve is “pussy” as a pejorative. A lot of people really like it, so I would think it should be a compliment. But yeah, sexism.