Thats the thing, even if porn sites try their best to protect your data, breaches are going to happen. It is impossible to say with 100% certaintity that the system has no bugs or exploits. It is impossible to say with 100% certaintity that employess handling the data and servers will not act maliciously.
There are dads out there that still make a lot of sacrafices for their children. Sure they didn’t carry the pregnancy but a good dad still supports their spouse during and after the pregnancy as well as supports the kids. Good dads will lose sleep, change diapers, work extra hours for extra cash, and make other sacrafices for their kids. Just because a man did not get pregnant does not mean they had no burdens. Parenting is a team effort.